Hi guys, I am going to take you through a number of steps to get the girl next door. First, let me clear something here. The girl next door could actually be the girl next door, or the girl in your street, school, at the coffee shop, saloon and all. So don’t worry, your case is not left behind.
This is going to be surprisingly short and straight to the point.
GUIDE 1: GET HER CONTACT
This is going to be surprisingly short and straight to the point.
GUIDE 1: GET HER CONTACT
This is really a cool start. Now how to do this is simple. Of course there are a thousand ways to get a girls phone number at first sight but this would make it more interesting. But most times, a lot of guys find it difficult to get a girls contact at first contact. This might be to play the cool gentle man, but I tell you today, if you play the cool guy, you might likely not get the chance again. Now what to do is quick and brief – get close to her and tease her with something like this ‘hey, I am a fan!’ or ‘So it’s true what they say?’ In the instances, she could respond by saying ‘fan of what?’ or ‘what do they say?’ either ways, you are save. Then you respond “well if you don’t know, I will tell you but first what’s your name?’ with this, she will tell you and will be curious to know what you have to say. Once she tells you the name, cut in and say ‘oh sorry, I would love to continue with this discussion but i have to run along now’ then hand her over your phone and ask her for her number – she will go for it. However, make sure you get her contact in a nice and memorable. This is to avoid interrogation when you decide to call her.
GUILD 2: KEEP IT COOL
Hey congrats on the first mission. Now you have her contact, don't call her back that day. Leave it for tomorrow. Now, call her early morning like 7am or 8am. Introduce yourself with a sample of what you told her earlier. Tease her again. You could say "I told my kid sister about who I met yesterday and guess what?' she replies 'what' then you say 'she asked me to call you. Then remember I was supposed to tell you something yesterday. Can we meet? That's it. Once she accepts, you are on! Well if she gives you irrelevant excuses, stop and tease her more until she accept to meet with you.
Or...maybe you bumped into her again, keep it cool by asking her simply questions like 'do you stay around here', 'where are you going' and more. At the end, just say 'bye' and go.
GUIDE 3: DON'T BE PUSHED TO PLEASE HER
If you successful deal with the two guides, well you are good to go. Next step is 'don't be pushed to please her'. You could be pushed to start buying her gifts or presents or either tell her how you love her already or start bugging her phone (calling her constantly). These are not safe for you. Beautiful girls always have someone or guys wooing them day in and day out. Try not to be pushed to be one of those that have little or nothing to offer in terms of what she desires and not her wants.
GUIDE 4: STAND OUT IN THE CROWD
Like I said before, beautiful girls have guys wooing them. So when you are not pushed to do what other guys are doing for her, she will be more interested in you and would want to know what made you to stand out from other guys.
Here's a little tip to do that;
1. Call her once in two day, ask her questions pertaining to her daily living and allow her to ask you about yourself. Normally they would use these words 'and you?'. With this, tell her about your day in details. This is very important. Whenever you answer her questions, make it in details.
2. Tease her always. You could use her eye brow 'yeah I was just thinking about your eye brow. If I could change the colour to pink'. Stuffs like that would make her want to hear from you more often.
GUIDE 5: BE YOURSELF
Yeah! Be yourself. A lot of guys when they get to this point, they will say "Ahh...no need, she is already mine". Who told you she is already yours?. Actually you are on a thin line between your dream girl and going crazy, not falling in love. Most times, when guys get to this point, they tend to make the girl their priority and forget about themselves. All they want to do would be to please they lady. When you start this, you will definitely be on the losing side. Her expectations of you will grow high and one day you will not be able to keep up and that would be it. She would turn around, telling you that you no longer care for or that you have changed. So, be yourself around her and she will be the best you ever had.
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